I was watching a recipe on YouTube. I generally follow
her for any new recipes. At the end of
her presentation, she started to talk about the new pan she cooked that recipe
in. She said it was presented to her, by
one of her students, who took private cooking lessons from her.
What is the inference from this ‘Pan Story’?
If she would have advertised explicitly that she takes
private lessons too, people watching her will end up telling, she is marketing
herself. By telling this ‘PAN Story’ she
subtly / delicately shared the same message. CRAFTY!
What is Story telling?
It is the art of telling an event or a series of
events
Communication Choices - We have 3 ways to communicate
- Assertion
- Facts
- Story
Assertion - Opinions and Generalization - XXXXXX is THE best Company to
provide solutions for Digital
Transformations.
Facts - Statistical data - XXXXXX
is ranked 193 in the 2019 FORTUNE 500 list
Story - Success
Story -
XXXXXX has successfully completed 25
years and going strong covering
various industry - Banking & Financial / Health care /
INS. It resolved an issue with one of
the INS client‘s claim Procedures. It reduced the time of the process from 10
weeks to 10 days. It is NOT only solving
the problem through technology, but solving human problems.
I told you 3 points about the company XXXXX - but which
one will stay longer in your memory….
NOT the Assertion or the Fact, but the STORY will. That is the power of
Story.
As per Steve Jobs - the most powerful person in the world
is a story Teller. The story teller can create a view of the future
that no one has. He himself was one of
the best story Tellers.
There are 2 reasons why stories are important
1. Scientific Reason - When you listen to stories - we produce 2 hormones Cortisol and Oxytocin. Cortisol advise us - fight / flight Oxytocin love hormone - they help us stating that ‘this is interesting, pay attention….’
2. Human Reason - We created it - we make use of some characters and build it. When we hear it, we know it is reasonable - it is NOT superficial / phony.
Story Sticks - you remember stories better. A small exercise. Below are 3 sentences.
1) John walked on the roof
2) Eddie wrote the Play
3) Bill picked up the eggs.
Who walked on the roof? Who wrote the
play?
Now let us try this.
1) Santa walked on the roof
2) Shakespeare wrote the Play
3) Easter Bunny picked up the eggs.
Now - Who walked on the roof? Who wrote the play? You are able to answer them, bcos you connect
these sentences with a story and able to remember them better.
In today’s world, attention is currency. When we post something, we are all curious to
know, how many people viewed or how many people reacted to it. There is so much clutters out there, Stories
prove to be the powerful way to get and keep attention.
In Business Story, it is important that - you need to take care of
· What happened
· Why do I care
You address only the relevant details. They are just anecdotal
only.
4 Patterns of storytelling.
Connection Story Pattern: Personal stories from your life - which you use to connect with people or coach them.
Clarity Pattern:
In the Past / Something Happened /So now / in the Future. It answers ‘Why’ you are doing something and
it is contextual.
Success Story: It is a snapshot - Explain how you
helped another client to solve a problem.
Anti-story - Influence Story. You cannot beat a story with a Fact. You can
beat it with better story.
4 Principles of your story
1) Story
speak to your emotion. We all know that
there are 2 sides of our brain.
Emotion
Practical
It is found that we take predominantly
decisions based on emotions and back it with rational. So emotions get more attention.
2) Establish
a connection with your audience - build a common ground, which is very
important.
For eg. When associates come to me
to get a next /new assignment , they start talking
in my Mother tongue and try to establish a relation, through the language….
3) Power
of Contrast: Bring in a twist / climax in your story. Else it will be a
monotone and become boring and seek less attention.
4) Truth
Well Told: I know everyone will agree to
it. If your story is false, its shelf life will be short. Also presenting the
truth matters, it must be narrated with proper articulation. Yes, the ‘WHAT’ is important in your story
but the ‘HOW’ is even more important.
So create your stories which are powerful and make an
impact.
The world is full of Data and noise. You can reduce the noise and make your data
heard only with the help of your stories.
You told a good story with this piece 🙌
ReplyDeleteExcellent one. Very nicely articulated.
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